The holiday season can bring a special type of joy and magic that so many of us look forward to every year. For those who have lost a loved one, it can be one of the hardest times of the year. There are ways to enjoy the holiday season while honoring the very real grief and pain increased by missing those who are no longer with us to physically celebrate the holiday. Below are five tips to help cope with grief during the holidays. Attend holiday gatherings, but not too many .