If I asked you to list a handful of elements that make up healthy relationships, what would you say? I bet good communication would be on there. Trust would likely be too. You might also mention mutual respect, empathy, compromise, and constructive conflict resolution, among many other things. And you wouldn’t be wrong! So then why do so many of us struggle in our relationships? Why does it feel like we can't seem to get it right, despite knowing what we “should” be doing? Wh